Hi
My ex husband moved to a city 25 miles away after we split up.
2 years ago he asked if I would put our children on the bus in our home town and he would meet the off the bus at the other end. My daughter was then 13 and my son was 10. I agreed providing he met them and text me to let me know whenever got to him. I did it so as to maintain contact as at the time he didn't have a car.
He now has a car and insists on the kids catching the bus to him - he never meets them now and never lets me know they have arrived safe, fortunately I've made sure both kids have mobile phones so they let me know. He will then drive them home at the end of contact / weekend.
My kids are now 15 and 12, my daughter often says that she doesn't want to go but the ex insists she has to go to get our son over there. If she wanted to stay at home one weekend he will be awkward and refuse to come and pick our son up.
My son idealises his dad and has started to get upset when returning from contact as he feels he hasn't spent enough time with his dad. His dad has said he can go over to him more frequently but he will have to catch the bus on his own and he will meet him at the other end. I still feel he is too young for this and am not comfortable at all.
The bus journey take 1.5 hours, and stops at many villages on the way.
Are re there any legal implications here? I would appreciate any advice also.
Thanks
kate
My ex husband moved to a city 25 miles away after we split up.
2 years ago he asked if I would put our children on the bus in our home town and he would meet the off the bus at the other end. My daughter was then 13 and my son was 10. I agreed providing he met them and text me to let me know whenever got to him. I did it so as to maintain contact as at the time he didn't have a car.
He now has a car and insists on the kids catching the bus to him - he never meets them now and never lets me know they have arrived safe, fortunately I've made sure both kids have mobile phones so they let me know. He will then drive them home at the end of contact / weekend.
My kids are now 15 and 12, my daughter often says that she doesn't want to go but the ex insists she has to go to get our son over there. If she wanted to stay at home one weekend he will be awkward and refuse to come and pick our son up.
My son idealises his dad and has started to get upset when returning from contact as he feels he hasn't spent enough time with his dad. His dad has said he can go over to him more frequently but he will have to catch the bus on his own and he will meet him at the other end. I still feel he is too young for this and am not comfortable at all.
The bus journey take 1.5 hours, and stops at many villages on the way.
Are re there any legal implications here? I would appreciate any advice also.
Thanks
kate
Ex wants 12 year old to use public transport for contact!
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